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Just Give Up: There’s No Point in Resisting Popular Culture Any More

culture

Cultural resistance is a broad term describing specifically how individuals or groups attempt to change society. The reason it is a broad term is because cultural resistance could come in almost any form. As long as the possible process in which the action could change the current norm in society is clear, it can be considered to be cultural resistance.

This can include the way a person dresses, the way he or she talks, the music he or she makes, and it can even scale up to riotous behaviors like the questionable actions of Project Mayhem in “Fight Club.” Project Mayhem burned apartments and exploded buildings in the name of cultural resistance.

What a Mess

environment

Massive finger pointing and tragic consequences are the results of the massive oil spill off Harbin, China. This situation can’t be amended, the 80 kilometer slick of toxic benzene is heading down the Songhua Rivver that supplies a city of over four million people with running water. While the government shut down the water system, residents hurriedly scrambled to obtain and stock bottled drinking water as schools and businesses and markets closed down. The government has already made a formal pre apology to Russia since the chemical is heading towards Khabarovsk. Being labeled as one of China’s worst environmental disasters, a formal criminal investigation is being held to take responsibility.

The Best Way to Drive Away Those Pesty Teenagers

current events

The dog whistle is a common item used by pet owners to draw their dogs to them. It is silent to the human ear but attract the attention of canines. Insect repellent candles and spray are unharmful to human beings but drive mosquitos and other annoying pests away from the area. Now, there’s the child whistle, combining both the genius powers of the dog whistle with the same intention as the insect repellent. Invented by Howard Stapleton, he puts to use the fact that children are capable of hearing a higher frequency than adults. Quite simply, that means there are noises that a child can hear that adults can’t. And that, would come in mighty handy.

Face-Off

medical treatment

In the popular science fiction movie thriller, John Travolta and Nicholas Cage underwent an operation that allowed them to swap faces and therefore, become each other. In the twenty first century, a face transplant has become a reality for a certain woman and it is far less than thrilling or entertaining. After a savage dog attack, a French woman lost her nose, chin, and lips. Marking the first time in world history, this anonymous 38 year old will receive tissues, muscles, arteries, veins, and skin from a brain dead patient to be transplanted onto her own.

Dispelling Tall Tales

new research

There is a popular misconception that our ancestors were significantly shorter than we are today. However, after an extensive study of hundreds of churchyard skeletons, British archaeologists Charlotte Roberts and Margaret Cox believe that the general population hasn’t changed too drastically from the Medieval era to now. In actually, basic male and female height in Britain has pretty much remained quite steady since the Neolithic era!

Why the European Union has a problem with letting a Muslim nation join their club

politics

Turkey is a country in Europe. However, it is also Islamic, has a per capita GNP that is less than a third of the EU average, and an unemployment rate above 10%. More than forty years ago, the people of Turkey decided that they should become a member of the European Union, as they have always believed they rightfully belonged to. While some members met Turkey’s request with enthusiasm and support, others expressed fierce debate, criticism, and opposition. The question that remains is: Turkey is a country in Europe, but is it a European country?

halloween treat = ]

entertainment

in celebration of halloween this upcoming weekend, i just wanted to share this with all of you.

my sister made me a really thoughtful one and it was so sweet. carve one yourself and sent it to someone you love to make them smile too:

pumpkin carving.
hey. you want procrastination, you got it.

happy halloween!

LOST

entertainment

for all those of you who don't watch the abc show, LOST, i can't recommend it highly enough. it might be a little confusing catching them on the second season if you haven't been following all the episodes but if you try getting into it, you won't regret it. the story is about the survivors of a plane crash who are trying to figure out a way off the island they are stranded on. however, it is so much more than a build-campfire-hunt-wild-boars type story. it explores the most delicate and painful topics of human nature- disappointment, shame, destiny, as well as accepting your mistakes, making peace with yourself, and letting go of the past.

celebrate banned books week and get ready for super mario opera!

culture

Since I'm sure everyone is super excited about Banned Books Week, this would be a great way to explore the topic of censorship. Some of the books on the American Library Association's list of banned books include Judy Blume's Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret, J.D. Salinger's The Catcher in the Rye, Maya Angelou's I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, Ralph Ellison's Invisible Man, and Richard Wright's Native Son.

we must remember, every now and then...

Last week, two guest speakers came to my Asian Americans Community class. They were both Japanese Americans who had gone to the Internment Camps during World War II. Their speeches were a reminder to us, of the way their lives were taken from them, the betrayal they felt, the incredible strength of a people to make the best out of nothing and live through whatever odds, and the struggle to move on past hopelessness. In their telling of their lives, it is easy to see all we take for granted in our own lives and our responsibility to open, discuss, defy, and impact general perceptions and stereotypes and what will happen if hatred, misunderstanding, and racism ever cause us as a nation to forget where we’ve been and what we’ve overcome.

Angels in America

A few minutes ago, I just finished watching the HBO movie, Angels in America, and I can't help but think about a lot of the issues dealt with in this film. Politics, AIDS, sexism, racism, loneliness, abandonment, fear, death...it was a painful thing to watch America with all it's outer glory and it's bitter hatred underneath. And it is as prevalent and real today as it was during the Reagan era, when this film took place. A generation of people, isolated, forgotten, and ignored; a people America wished to disappear like a bad dream.

a sense of home

community

each and every one of us belong to a number of communities just as we define with many different identities. we are daughters, lovers, and best friends. we may obsess over spongebob squarepants and hate macaroni and cheese. we are quiet and outgoing, and insanely brilliant while still being a little stupid some of the time. some of us may be graceful dancers, talented swimmers, and some of us may not know how to dance or swim at all. but in coming up with a community to belong to, we have to be selective in the fact that it doesn't define what we are but who we are. and accept the fact that others might not truly understand what it is like to walk in your shoes. to have lived the life that you lived. and that's simply ok. because that is what makes each of us whatever it is we are. i identify as a new yorker, having grown up and spent all my childhood on the trash littered cold concrete, running through central park, visiting the met and moma more times than humanely possible, seeing my favorite broadway shows over and over again, paying $10.50 for a movie ticket, chinatown, soho, times square, union square, flushing, bronx science, bryant park. i identify as a chinese american, being raised in the rich culture and language that i love so dearly. a heritage is the history of my family, poignant stories and heartbreaking memories. i hope i will always remember the smell of my grandmother's chow fun, the sound of the mah jong table, the bedtime stories my mother used to tell me at night, the way to tell if a watermelon is sweet, or how to speak chinese. i hope i never lose this part of myself.


Comments by remember to breathe


by remember to breathe on Thu, 2005-12-15 06:53
congrats! i treat every first snow of the year like it was the first time i've seen snow. don't worry, regardless of how old you get, it's never silly to play in the snow. just wait when the snow gets really deep! then the fun will really begin.
by remember to breathe on Thu, 2005-12-15 06:48
I don't believe that leaving you out of their conversation and making you feel uncomfortable is their intention. Whenever I have spoken in Chinese to my Chinese friends while knowing there were other people in the room who didn't understand, I didn't do it so that the others would feel left out. I mean no offense to them at all. The same way you would ask one friend how they did on their soccer meet if by chance the other friend knew nothing about soccer, one simply says something in another language to a person who understands because it is about something that pertains particularly to that culture. It is also a sense of pride. I'm sorry it if is offensive to other people and I understand that. I also just hope you also understand that their language means a lot to some people. They are never speaking for the hell of it to ridicule someone who doesn't speak it or use it for the purposes of talking behind your back. They use it because it communicates well and I suppose it's become a habit.
by remember to breathe on Thu, 2005-12-15 06:38
Yes, every race has a stereotype, it has already been instilled in our culture. Mainstream American culture and media have an extreme impact on public opinion, such as Apu from the Simpsons representing the Indian stereotype. There can be debate upon debates of who has it worst, but the fact of the matter is, all these stereotypes hurt. Whether it is a "bad" stereotype such as the over sexualized homosexual male, or the "good" stereotype of being the Asian model minority. Nobody has it better than the other, nobody has it worse. Having an assumption being forced upon you is harmful in any way you look at it.
by remember to breathe on Thu, 2005-12-15 06:32
Sure, time management would help a lot. But if only most of us can do that. It's not something you can easily advise "just learn how to manage your time" and someone can go out and do it. It takes a long time for people to get the hang of it. The thing is, while the amount of work seems almost inhuman at times, memorizing the times table was just as impossible when you were in the second grade, as these two fifteen page papers, presentations, finals, projects, etc., seems in college today. We all grow with it, in time. For now, at 5:50am, with pages left to finish for my sociology final, caffine pills will have to do.
by remember to breathe on Wed, 2005-12-07 00:00
I think growing up a theater fanatic in New York City pretty much gives me the excuse to say it: I am in love with RENT. It's been a huge part of my life for a long time. I've seen it several times on broadway and waited for the actors after the show every time. I was really excited and nervous when I heard they were making a film version of it because I was afraid it would ruin it for people who didn't see the show. Chris Columbus left out my favorite songs and didn't develop Mark enough, who was my favorite character from the show. I felt that the show was ten times more moving. But the movie wasn't as bad as I anticipated. The actors did an amazing job on screen. A lot of movie critics bashed Rent and I was afraid it would happen. However, I am so glad you liked it! I listen to the soundtrack 24/7, it's ridiculous.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-12-05 16:24
I couldn't get tickets for Wicked back in New York City. But I have the soundtrack and I listen to it all the time, Defying Gravity makes me cry. I love Idina Menzel. Good luck on getting tickets to the show!
by remember to breathe on Sat, 2005-12-03 01:55
Singapore is known for their harsher laws and practices, as seen in the incident in 1994 where an American teenager was caught for vandalising cars and street signs and sentenced to four months in jail, a heavy fine, and whipping with a cane. Understandably, such punishment for a first time offender completely outraged many Americans. Even when Clinton tried to intervene, the Singapore government did not comply. Other laws that are common in Singapore are: No chewing gum. Death sentence for drug smuggling. Paying to enter the Central Business District. No public nudity, even at home Caning and at least 20 years in jail for rapists (20+ years Prohibition of smoking ads since the 1970s. Jail for possessing party drugs. Caning for rioting. Fines for assorted petty offences, such as illegial parking or throwing litter. All of these laws are believed to be imposed to uphold their country's dignity and class.
by remember to breathe on Tue, 2005-11-22 00:20
This reminds me of that reality show "The Nanny" and such. From the commercials, it horrifies me to see how obnoxious some children can actually be. I'm not surprised at McCauley's request...some families really do let their children get out of control. Parents need to take responsibility for whatever trouble might result from that. The thing is, he should be allowed to kick out anyone who likewise might lack manners and proper behavior at a public restaurant, not just little kids.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-11-14 01:09
i agree with you on this. whichever way you see it, it's terribly insensitive to make a clothing product like this. i just don't understand the reasoning behind it. it would help if it went one way or another. if it was a more obvious homage to the Vietnam War, then we'd have no problem with it. or if it did show any racist connotations like the a&f chinese laundry tshirts, then we'd have right to be mad about it. here, i just don't know what to make of it...which is the worst of all. personally, i myself, would be upset seeing teenagers wear it as a fashion item here in America just because it downplays what that word, what that country really means.
by remember to breathe on Tue, 2005-11-01 00:59
i saw the first SAW exactly last halloween. i saw half of it through my jacket hood and the other half i just stared at my friend's expression and asked him what was happening. it was disgusting, ridiculous, and gross but when i afterwards, i couldn't stop talking about it. the tactics "jigsaw" uses are undoubtedly sadistic and genius. but it all makes sense. i remember the one with the guy who keeps cutting himself. he is forced to play the game in order to show "how bad do you want to live?" these people commit these sins, and now they have to prove if they're worth the life they're given. how far would YOU go...what terrifying things would you go through, in order to keep your life? talk about learning lessons the hard way. it was chilling and incredible. can't wait to see SAW II...i heard about the eyeball = ]
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-31 01:24
i thought lantern night was absolutely beautiful. you can't say our upperclasswomen don't love us after singing for that incredibly long time. i'm not all gung ho about traditions either but in the cloisters, underneath the stars, in our robes, lights in blue, green, light blue, and finally our red. no other college has anything unique in its own way like we do. i was really touched and moved. nobody except mawrters will ever understand or go through something so brilliant. and that's a good thing.
by remember to breathe on Thu, 2005-10-27 22:39
that was so sweet. the memories almost made me cry = ] i miss it.
by remember to breathe on Tue, 2005-10-25 22:23
80's comedies are the best. in addition to sixteen candles, the breakfast club and ferris bueller's day off, among others, are on my top dvd shelf. and i must've watched forrest gump a thousand times and cried every time.
by remember to breathe on Tue, 2005-10-25 22:18
you're right, breaking bonaduce really is cheap, artificial entertainment. however, what makes me really angry and offended aren't shows like survivor or american idol. i admit, shows like the real world and the surreal life are addicting because the producers come up with these outrageous scenarios and they purposely pick people who will have overly exaggerated reactions that can be hilarious. what isn't okay are shows like the swan and extreme makeover, where the answer to problems is solved by plastic surgery. what kind of message do these programs give the general public? these women are crying into the camera because they are supposedly ugly and can't stand the suffering. so the show says, don't worry, it's true you are ugly now, but with money and good doctors we can make you "beautiful". i am disgusted.
by remember to breathe on Tue, 2005-10-25 21:07
i gotta agree with g33k and city here. i'm a new yorker too. i'm used to smiling at people just because i think it's hilarious seeing the look on their face when thet get all paranoid and confused. but that's just me. in defense of the wonderful city of new york however, i did this experiment last year for ap psychology where i had to ask a random stranger on the subway if i can have their seat for no apparent reason. and they did.
by remember to breathe on Tue, 2005-10-25 20:59
i've seen rent three times and i'm seeing it again during the winter break. i love it so much, i listen to the soundtrack everyday before i go to sleep.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-24 22:07
he is also wasting the taxpayer's money, however the shooting and robbery is pretty serious. he should be put away just for being crazy enough to ask for a longer sentencing.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-24 22:02
it's good to know we have that tingly feeling to alert us...but what's really scary is why didn't yours work that morning
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-24 21:44
my family is from guangzhou and it is true. growing up in nyc too, most of the chinese friends i know come from a family that speaks cantonese. immediately, i ask if they're from guangzhou or hong kong because that is primarily where that dialect is spoken. in asian american communities we studies immigration patterns of people from east and south asia to the united states and the reason is because of the location. guangzhou and hong kong are harbor cities. just to add, guangzhou is an amazing place, the seafood is extraordinary like my grandma's home cooking.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-24 21:21
i have a complaint too! i got so excited when i saw chinese and THEN i saw (mandarin) next to it and now i am nothing. cantonese is just as important and common as mandarin.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-24 21:09
there is also a lot of concern about transgenic and genetically engineered fish. there was a huge controversy on whether or not to release altered fish into the wild. genetic engineering crops are profitable because these fish are larger in size and are able to sell for more money. however, they could eventually lead to the extinction of wild fish in addition to the issue with public health safety.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-24 20:55
i'm from queens, new york and i dress up and go trick or treating every year. my friends and i never find it old because it reminds us of those sweet, happy days when we were little. the thing with growing up is, you will continually learn and experience and change. but if you dont wish for it to, the feeling of being young will never go away. good luck getting ready for halloween everybody! i can't wait.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-17 13:31
If you really want something in life you have to work for it. Now quiet, they're about to announce the lottery numbers. -- Homer Simpson hehe. the same thing with those tv shows and reality shows- who wants to be a millionaire, survivor, etc. it's the get-rich-with-the-least-amount-of-effort-as-fast-as-you-can american dream. the idea that people should go to work everyday and earn money every hour is ridiculous isn't it, if you can win a million bucks by answering a few multiple choice questions, vote all your friends off an island, or pick a few lucky numbers. people forget that having a butt load of money isn't the most important thing in the world and isn't the equivalence of happiness.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-17 13:21
hell, i would believe it could be a disease. in fact i have been trying to explain to my mom how my bad habit is biological, although she wouldn't believe me. i wouldn't be able to start studying for tests until it was 1am the night before. i realized the condition worsens...soon i would do my papers the period before they were due. i am addicted to finding any little excuse to delay straightfoward working until the moment comes when i HAVE to. and then i push myself to the brink of insanity to finish it. and the cycle repeats. short attention span at it's most severe is ADD, procrastination can be just as harmful. one day, it'll catch up with me.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-17 13:03
prom has always been the same overly expensive and extravagent party. underage drinking and the all night parties have always been there. i think cancelling it is pretty foolish. this reminds me how some schools banned children from playing tag and dodgeball during recess just because sometimes kids would fall and scrape their knees. just because some people spend $500 on a gown, does not mean they can't be smart about it and buy a gorgeous $150 one. so if they choose to spend that much, who is the school to say they can't do that? in overprotecting their students, the school administration is making them miss out on the memories of a lifetime in their last year of high school.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-17 12:50
hahahaa people shouldn't be stealing off lawns, period! and i think gnomes are kinda cute in a creepy sort of way, not that i'd ever decorate my lawn with them. i bought one for my friend once as a joke.
by remember to breathe on Mon, 2005-10-10 19:41
i definately think this is an great event for an important cause. i collect donations and go to the AIDS walk every year in central park. it is such a worthy thing to give your time and effort to. plus, why hesitate to raise money for AIDS awareness and have fun at the same time.
by remember to breathe on Sat, 2005-10-08 20:50
i think to be friends with someone means that you trust them with your heart, knowing that one day, they will eventually hurt you whether they mean to or not. i have friends that have been with me since the day we met each other in kindergarden. i have friends who have stuck by me through every crazy high school drama. but they all have to leave sometime. whether is it going separate ways for college, whether it was some fight that cause us to not speak to each other, whether it is as simple as being to busy or lazy to call. if it hurts, it means that that person mattered, and doesn't it feel good to know that you had someone who meant something to you? the real friendships are the ones that make all the difference in the world so never settle for a superficial relationship just to avoid the pain. the point is to understand that people come and go in your life and remarkably, some stay too.
by remember to breathe on Sat, 2005-10-08 20:30
there is no way spanking a child because he or she was throwing a disrespectful temper tantrum is in any way on par with beating a child with a belt. the latter is called child abuse, the spanking, however, is not. i'm not saying it's a good idea to hit your children every time they do something bad but sometimes at a rather young age, they can't distinguish what is right and what is wrong without a distinctive discouragement of their actions. i think that every parent should know in their hearts what are appropriate and inappropriate ways of discipline. it is human logic to know the difference between spanking and child abuse, that they are not the same thing and to know never to cross the line.
by remember to breathe on Thu, 2005-10-06 18:28
ooooh man made islands and palm tree hotels? it's like a cross between jurassic park and paradise island. only without the dinosaurs and without the reality show cameras. this is so like trump to pull something like this off. this reminded me of another hotel i really want to see one day, the ice hotel in stockholm.
by remember to breathe on Thu, 2005-10-06 18:18
my high school had pretty much the same strict dress code and it does sound really bad on paper, limiting freedom of expression, taking away student rights, etc. however, if you see it from another point of view, yes, it would be horrible if someone wore a shirt that had a terribly offensive image on it. so it has a point. and with the hats, it's not like i support the no hats rule but it should not have made such a big deal as it did. whenever a teacher would waste five minutes of class time telling somebody to remove their hat, i would just be annoyed because if a teacher feels disrespected by someone wearing a hat during the lesson, it's not going to kill the person to not have it on for a few hours.
by remember to breathe on Wed, 2005-10-05 15:58
i think what's most disturbing about that is how judy would much rather his son live his life thinking he was DISEASED than being half black. as if an illness was more normal. in that way, it isn't so much the actually being lied to that would hurt him, it is feeling that who he really is isn't good enough.
by remember to breathe on Sun, 2005-09-25 14:43
i went home for to celebrate the chinese mid-autumn festival with my family, eat really good mooncake, and not be left out in joining the kids in running around with laterns. basically, the mid-autumn festival is really a celebration for the full moon and welcoming a successful harvesting season. there is also a myth that a young woman stole her husband's elixar of immortality and escaped to the moon in order to live out her long and lonely life. she is the moon goddess and what causes the moon to shine so beautifully in the sky every 15th of august.
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