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It is the end of the semester and the work is piling up. The workload for most college students is unbearable. Three fifteen-page papers, three finals and two in-class presentations are on the agenda for this week alone. Not to mention finishing up that other essay due from two weeks ago that you needed an extension on. You are scheduled for twelve hours to work in the dining hall this week. The holiday season is upon us and you haven't finished your Christmas cards. Not to mention gathering all the presents you are expected to give. There is a month-long break coming up and your room needs to be ready for it. There are dust bunnies the size of Godzilla that are about to eat your month's worth of dirty laundry that still need to be done. You haven't packed a single sock and your mother is calling about trip arrangements. If it hasn't happened already, the dreaded all-nighter is coming for you!

Are you ready for some football?

blog against racism

Racism is a problem that haunts our everyday lives. Scientifically, among humans there is no biological difference between races. So in the end there is no real difference, just variation. There are a lot of people that believe that black men are better at football than white men because biologically they are faster.

MLK Day

current events

Bryn Mawr College was founded with the ideals of Quaker values. One of the key Quaker ideals is the emphasis on equality. At BMC not one religion, geographical origin, or any other distinguishing factors are favored over any others. With this ideal of equality there are no real national holidays that are recognized by the school. Although some large holidays are observed with a break such as thanksgiving and the winter holidays, no other holidays are given a day off from work. Students on campus are hurt by the College’s insensitivity to holidays that are very important to some students. The main discussion of the past SGA meeting was a controversy over not having Martin Luther King jr. day off from school. Most all other schools, businesses in the area and in the country observe this holiday and all the work that MLK jr. did for the United States’ history.

DO I HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL YOU!!!!!

community | culture

Hey I found this amazing thing you just got to buy!! I'm not talkin about anything you see on TV, I'm your friend, you gotta look at this!! CLICK TO READ MORE!!!!!

can you keep a secret?

politics

There has been some interesting talk recently about Lewis Libby and his inability to keep a secret. He recently disclosed the identity of a CIA agent. There will be a court hearing about it soon, there is still a lot of finger pointing as to the original source. Libby says that he first heard about the agent from a member of the media.

are we missing something?

culture

I was recently reading a blog by some unknown person (*wink*) about women giving up opportunities in the working world to stay home with their kids. It seems like the "dream life" but could these women (or men) have the secret to curing cancer or some other world-changing talents that we will never know about? The blogger spends a lot of time debating the issue. I had never really thought about how some women really give up all their ambitions in life to be a good parent/spouse.

at it again..

music

Did you hear that the Steve Miller Band is back on tour?! I think it's amazing that all these old bands are making come-back tours. Recently in Boston the Rolling Stones played a show at Fenway park. Not too long ago the grateful dead (one of my all time favorites) minus the late Jerry G. went on their Wave that flag summer tour 2004.

Getting sick

Health

Around campus recently there seems to be a lot more coughing, sniffling and general tired eyes. When we all went to the doctor’s last spring to get our shots I bet a lot of you said “meningitis, how in the world would I get that?” or for whatever shots we received. It’s amazing how quickly a virus can sweep (nay- swiffer) a campus! There have been so many instances of mono floating around lately that the average over-worked, and tired college student assumes death when only little drowsy.

sex, robots and monkeys

blogging

What measures influence? Can a simple blog written by simple people change the world? We are the WEB OF INFLUENCE but what kind of influence are we trying to provoke? Can a bunch of motivated people really make an impact on the world? That's what this whole WOI is trying to do, influence people. We are influencing people to hear about the news, or even care about the news. Readers get a glimpse into our world at school and maybe even our personal lives. Could this WOI be more influential than other sources of influence? Music seems to be a very influential part of life. Any blog could probably influence a person quicker than a song could. Blogs are about information and ideas. A good blog gives you the news and then tells you what you can do with it.

Who's in charge here?

current events

Before I left for school I was really interested in documentaries. Anyone who knows me is probably laughing right about now, but I really like them. I watched this channel called the the discovery times channel It has a lot of really interesting pieces about things you wouldn’t even think were worth learning about. I watched this amazing piece about a prison in Columbia (I think) where the prisoners themselves mainly ruled the prison.

one bloggers trash is another's treasure...

blogging

The world-wide web is such a huge pool of information that it is sometimes very difficult to decipher between with useful information and the not so useful. So then when it comes to blogging, the main question is with all of the opportunities (basically everyone in the world) to create blogs, what's the point? It would be impossible for every single blog to be read and the author of chapter 21 of "we've got blog" tends to feel that too much information is being spewed out into the world. The author feels that there are too many self-indulged people writing about themselves and not enough pertinent information being shared.

blogging: stalking or honest intentions

blogging

From what blogging experience I had before taking this class I always thought of it as a weird means to stalk people. Some random guy in the middle of nowhere could read some teen-aged girl's blog and find out everything about her life. As a kid adults always told us to never reveal any personal information about ourselves. Blogging always sounded like a dangerous activity that could possibly be revealing too much information. In chapter 8 of "We've got blog" the author discusses a blog-based relationship. With the communities of blogs knit so tight where everyone knows everything about everyone else it seems completely possible to really get to know someone through their blogs.

Play me a song

community

About a year ago was when I really started to think about narrowing down my choice of colleges. When it came down to it Bryn Mawr was top on my list. I made a quick choice and applied early decision. When I received the letter saying that I was accepted, I never knew what I was really getting myself into. So the summer winded down and I started to get more and more nervous about starting this new chapter in my life. I was nervous about starting a collegiate sport and the collegiate workload. I kept all my nervous feelings a secret and pretended to be excited about this terrifying journey. When I actually got to my dorm, I started meeting one interesting person after another.

My communities

community

All the students participating in this blog belong to communities whether we think so or not. As students of Bryn Mawr we all belong to the educational and social Bryn Mawr community. I belong to the Pembroke East dorm community. My town back home is also a community that I belong to. In my recent past I have participated in sports communities which have been more like close-knit families. The Ice Hockey team that I played for back home was such an important community for me. Everyone on the team got along so well and it helped me on and off the ice in a tremendous way. A community for me is a group of individuals that become important to me for reasons of new ideas, support and guidance.


Comments by Paris and France


by Paris and France on Wed, 2005-12-14 21:36
It is a little out of control how we have been swept up into this idea of having to be PC all the time. It's so hard to be careful as to not to offend anyone. Someone could probably be offended by someone trying to be PC. My head hurts just thinking about it. I liked your example of Frosty the Snowperson of An Indistinguishable Gender.. that made me laugh. Who knows what will come of all this political correctness.. hopefully we'll get over it and just be nice. I go by the idea that generally it's not what you say it's what you mean (within reason).
by Paris and France on Wed, 2005-12-14 00:09
At my high school my senior year the police started a new tactic to cut down on teen drinking. Every-other day we heard about someone else getting a phone call home by the police asking them and their family to come down to the station. The police from my town were going through webshots of students. Almost everyone at my school posted pictures from the most recent house party. Anyone that could be identified in the pictures was contacted. In some cases students' coaches were contacted and they were suspended or kicked off the team. It's scary how a single picture can be used to ruin someone’s life.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-12-13 23:35
I can't remember the first time I played in the snow. I must have been very very young since I grew up in Boston. I remember sledding as a child and loving it. Snow days were the best. I love being at BMC seeing all the west coast students seeing snow for the first time. My roommate is from LA and the first time it snowed I thought her eyes were going to pop out of her head. It's funny and refreshing to see the innocence of someone seeing snowfall for the first time.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-12-13 22:37
What I find rude is when you are in a situation where two of the people speak another language and there is one person left out. This happened to me once at dinner with my Lebanese friends. There were three of us and they started speaking Arabic and I was just sitting there twiddling my thumbs. I know I'm not the only person who believes that it is rude to speak in another language in front of those who do not understand it. I'm not saying that people are not entitled to their freedom of speech, they are. Nor am I saying that everyone should forget their native language and keep to English. I love learning new languages and new cultures. The thing I have a problem with is when people purposefully single out one or a few people to talk in another language in an isolated area.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-12-13 13:38
When I was thinking about responding to this post this is immediately what I thought of. Back home I have a large group of friends that are Lebanese. When some of them get together and they're all fluent in Arabic and I'm not it makes me feel really uncomfortable when they speak in Arabic to each other when I'm there. I'm not saying that the student in the article should have been suspended for speaking his native language but at the same time I find it rude. Ruru, the idea that you speak your native language around people that don't understand it just to talk about them is crazy and rude. I don't know you well enough to really say anything bad about you but how would you like it if people did that to you? I guess it is all a matter of situation but I wouldn't like it if it were done to me.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-12-13 13:31
That is a scary idea. A lot of Americans view arranged marriages as a "bad thing" but I bet a lot of them don’t consider it a legalized slave trade. It is crazy to think that women are still treated so badly after all these years. I know this is a weak comparison but on Wife Swap last night on ABC one of the women on the show was basically a slave to her husband. She was living by a book written in the '60's about how to be the perfect wife. Her husband was the master of the house and she really was his slave. I know it's not the same thing but it still blows my mind that this kind of thing is still going on today.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-12-13 13:25
We are all from a race that has some sort of stereotypes of one sort or another. I am a white American. People think that white Americans are all privileged and unappreciative; a lot of people think that white Americans all grew up in suburbia and are dumb and fat. There are so many stereotypes about everyone that it just becomes a sparing game of who can make it hurt the most. If we take a step back and really think about what we're doing perhaps it will slowly end. In the end two wrongs don't make a right and hurting someone else because they hurt you will only make things worse.
by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-12-01 17:29
Very long article.
by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-12-01 17:11
This is an interesting topic. I do not believe that another country has the power to perform this act, is this a credible source? Keep us posted if you hear anything new on this.
by Paris and France on Fri, 2005-10-28 19:22
Higher education is so expensive!! Who can put a price on an education? Sometime soon these prices are going to have to settle, it's getting out of control! If the price keeps climbing then no one is going to be able to afford it. I'm glad Bryn Mawr works so hard with finantial aid to help everyone out.
by Paris and France on Fri, 2005-10-28 19:17
Have you ever seen the movie October Sky? It's a beautiful movie with just about the same idea. If you haven't seen this movie, SEE IT!
by Paris and France on Fri, 2005-10-28 19:16
It's crazy how we miss the innocence of childhood. I am so stressed today and lately that when I think back to when I was a kid, it almost makes me sick at how happy and easy life was. When you're a kid you don't realize how easy you've got it. Everything is done for you and all you have to do is have a good time. Parents taylor the weekend around you. Remember going to soccer games in the fall? Everything was about the kids and we didn't have a worry in the world. I would give anything to be back in those days.
by Paris and France on Fri, 2005-10-28 19:09
that seems really helpful. I (and you too) try to listen to NPR streaming programs on the net a lot, but it's nice to have things in print too. Good research my friend
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-10-04 21:34
I remember studying an experiment in psychology about nonsexist child rearing. It was quite interesting how they conducted this experiment. They had a child whose gender wasn’t revealed for a while. The child was raised with equal proportions of “girl” toys and “boy” toys. The child was to decide for themself which toys to play with. Also the child wasn’t dressed in a clothing style of either gender. The experiment was very interesting. I wish I could find more information about it but there doesn’t seem to be much out there. I did find an interesting piece about non-sexist child rearing. It's a bit long but still good.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-10-04 20:59
I never really thought of the difference in surgeries. One of my friends from home underwent breast reduction surgery. When she first told me I thought to myself “why would you want to change your body?” Today she is so much happier. I guess she had a lot of back problems that she no longer suffers from. Also she just seems healthier and thinner. Exercising is so much easier for her and she can fit into clothes better.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-10-04 20:53
Your style of writing is beautiful. Your words flow so well and it sounds so poetic. I’m sure you really like writing, keep up the good work!
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-10-04 20:50
I haven't slept alot this week. I'm ready to just sort of go into hibernation. I'm practically on an IV of coffee. I love coffee. It keeps me upright, and makes me less of a social retard. be careful using terms like "social retard". I have worked with a program called Best Buddies and I have seen how the word "retard" has ruined lives. I know you didn't mean it in an offensive way, but just try to be more careful next time
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-10-04 20:45
My mother is a single parent. I know through the years it has really been hard for her but I’m so close to her that it all worked out. Single parent situations are so common these days. It seems like no one is staying together anymore, and when people are really in love something else happens (maybe an early death). I wonder if our generation will learn from our parents and pick better spouses or if we will be content with short marriages.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-09-27 15:41
I agree with you, dehydration is probably one of the most overlooked problems. The more soda and coffee a person drinks, the more dehydrated they get. Unlike apathy, I don’t mind the taste of tap water. I can’t really taste the difference because I’ve been drinking tap water my whole life. Dehydration is a serious problem, I had no idea that it aided in causing cancer and other serious illnesses, but that makes sense. So drink more water people!! Pick up a nalgene bottle and fill it up often!
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-09-27 15:33
The bystander syndrome is a serious and real thing. A person is much more likely to help someone else if they are the only one witnessing the crime. When there is a group of people witnessing a crime then there is a displacement of responsibility. Everyone in the group thinks that someone else will handle the situation and then nothing gets done. If you are ever in a situation where you need help with many bystanders, single out one person and say, “YOU, help me” and then there will be no question as to who should respond.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-09-27 15:19
It's so interesting that you compare the prices of organic food and good posture. A bag of cheetos is only $1 but a much healthier snack would probably be a lot more. The American culture is so unbelievably distorted that it’s easier for most Americans to be unhealthy. When millions of dollars go into campaigning a healthy lifestyle, the price (which is probably the most important thing to the average person) is not balanced. MacDonald’s food has always been cheaper than a good old-fashioned and healthy meal. Your post seems to reinforce the general outlook of the United States. Healthy is good, but expensive and the unhealthy is cheap and easy… it really makes you think.
by Paris and France on Tue, 2005-09-27 14:58
In my high school psychology class along with learning about Genie we also learned about a "wild child" named Victor who was raised in France. Those stories are crazy! Genie's story was particularly sad because she was really abused. She never even learned how to talk because she had passed the age where a person can learn a language. It's amazing how people can treat children.
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by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-09-22 09:49
why don't you just get a new one? They're not THAT much money.. you could get a cheap one to hold you off until your plan lets you upgrade. You shouldn't be so distressed, there is a logical solution to every problem.
by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-09-22 09:46
The bryn mawr grading scale was a bit hard to get used to in the beginning but I think along with the honor code, we're doing pretty well. Most of the grades we get are on more of a check system. If we do a good job, we get a check. If the work is really good, and the student went above and beyond a check plus is given. In the honor code, students really aren't encouraged to talk about grades as to develop a less competitive environment. It's such a change from high school when I felt like everyone was always judging me on the grade that I received. Bryn Mawr seems to do a good job at separating the competition between students and just encourages the students to do as well as they can. Maybe Princeton could learn a thing or two from us ;)
by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-09-15 19:38
Oh President Bush, how sweet it is to be loved by you...
by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-09-15 19:36
People will come around. I know I've been slacking a bit on my blogging, perhaps I've just been really busy. Everyone really sill loves the site there has just been a lull in good news.
by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-09-15 19:34
Britney Spears is definitely one of a kind.. I can clearly think back to the days when she had to cancel her tour because of a "hurt knee" aka: getting breast implants. Now she’s having a child.. That poor, poor child! Oh well, I’m sure it’s a beautiful baby, I just hope it grows up right.. haha, wishful thinking..
by Paris and France on Thu, 2005-09-15 19:30
It's crazy how there's so many blogs out there about everything! It's really cool, I think, because then you can get really educated in the things you find personally interesting. Good research "like the state" keep it up
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