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PINK: A unisex color

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Years ago males were not caught wearing pink unless they were openly homosexual. This day and age, many males are "stepping up to the plate" so to speak and experimenting by adding various shades of pink to their wardrobe.

My dad is a substitute teacher for the schools around York, PA where I live. He owns various pink shirts and wears them to work. The students in his classes make fun of him and ask him if he is "gay." His response is always something to the degree of "Why not... I'm confident in my person and sexuality, pink is a nice color!"

I was highly confused hearing this story from my dad because it was to my knowledge that pink is basically the new red for men. I see men wearing pink frequently... whether it is on their ties or just a pale pink polo shirt. Why are high school kids not aware of this fashion statement?? People follow trends... but sometimes other individuals' sexual insecurities get into the way!

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People should be able to wear any colors they like.

Men wearing pink is not an unusual thing anymore.Thinking that men should not be wearing pink is a stereotype. Only because most baby- girls wear pink and baby-boys wear blue does not mean men should not be wearing pink. Should women not wear blue then? It is absurd. People should wear any colors they like.

it's okay...everyone's allowed to wear pink

I think guys who comment negatively on others wearing pink are just insecure. Before it was a big deal for guys to wear pink...but now it's the "in" color for guys. Sometimes guys ask girls for their opinion on the whole pink thing...and from what I know, many girls think pink looks very good on men because it shows a softer side. As for those guys who are immature and don't agree, I think they are just not keeping up with fashion. Another thing is that if you notice guys who do make jokes and whatnot are in high school...they probably just follow the crowd and don't speak for themselves.

Pink's not just the color anymore.

It's sad! Pink should just be another color out there for everyone to enjoy. It's sad that a color can carry a negative connotation for one sex but not for the other. I wish we could all just grow up knowing neutral colors. What would the world be like if we didn't have baby blue for the boys and pastel pink for the girls? If we could just erase the gender lines on colors, how much easier would life be?

It's just a color. I don't understand how a color can make you either masculine or feminine. Everyone should wear pink.

Color Associations Humor

Colors have a mind of their own. They influence the way
people think or pre-determine what you do. Example is how
people will go out of their way in oder to avoid crossing
the path of a black cat. Another example, take the color
of our blue bus and its influence over the great minds at Swarthmore & Haverford. Someone has to tell them that it is a bus... not a truck.

i've heard of that

I remember studying an experiment in psychology about nonsexist child rearing. It was quite interesting how they conducted this experiment. They had a child whose gender wasn’t revealed for a while. The child was raised with equal proportions of “girl” toys and “boy” toys. The child was to decide for themself which toys to play with. Also the child wasn’t dressed in a clothing style of either gender. The experiment was very interesting. I wish I could find more information about it but there doesn’t seem to be much out there. I did find an interesting piece about non-sexist child rearing. It's a bit long but still good.

boys who wear pink

I think that it is definitely rediculous that there are stereotypically certain colors for boys and certain colors for girls. What I am so curious to find out is how this whole thing began. Who is the one who decided that some colors are for boys and some colors are for girls; and what carried on his or her idea? I say, speaking for everyone: straight, gay, meterosexual, boys, girls, men and women that anyone can wear whatever color appeals to them. If you like a color, what should stop you from wearing them? A sterotype? Think about that the next time you're shopping, or even looking through your own closet.

boys who wear pink

I think that it is definitely rediculous that there are stereotypically certain colors for boys and certain colors for girls. What I am so curious to find out is how this whole thing began. Who is the one who decided that some colors are for boys and some colors are for girls; and what carried on his or her idea? I say, speaking for everyone: straight, gay, meterosexual, boys, girls, men and women that anyone can wear whatever color appeals to them. If you like a color, what should stop you from wearing them? A sterotype? Think about that the next time you're shopping, or even looking through your own closet.

wearing pink

I agree that it's just a color. I'm a 44 year old black man that wears pink, such as a pink hat, pink pants and shorts, pink sneakers, pink watches . I wear pink to show that it's ok for men to wear pink. I get strange looks from people when I wear pink and that should not be.

wearing pink

I agree that it's just a color. I'm a 44 year old black man that wears pink, such as a pink hat, pink pants and shorts, pink sneakers, pink watches . I wear pink to show that it's ok for men to wear pink. I get strange looks from people when I wear pink and that should not be.

I had a friend who wore pink...

In my high school it was unusual for guys for guys to wear pink, but I had a friend who did and a lot of us girls thought it was attractive just because he was self-assured enough to wear it without worrying.

I had an issue with PINK on men.

I can remember the pink trend in guys clothing like it was yesterday. In my school the "cooler" guys sported pink. They all wore similar shirts, a baby pink long plain shirt. No writings, no design, just plain pink. I will admit that at first I was very pulled back from guys wearing pink. For some reason when they started wearing pink, I hated seeing them in pink. To me, pink was a color associated with women, and little girls. I don’t know why seeing guys in pink triggered off as a small offense to me, but sooner then later I was able to accept the color pink on guys. Now I don’t care what they wear, as long as they look nice in it. I just think its interesting how the guys wearing pink shirts use to trigger me to get upset over the matter.

Men owned pink first.

I can't recall where I read it - it was some sort of history book on colors - but way way way back in the day, pink was not a feminine color. It just somehow turned out to have that connotation.
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Pink was for boys..

Yeah, wasn't it that pink was for boys originally, but things got switched around sometime...

How pink became genderised

Here's what I found!

The practice of pink for girls and blue for boys was introduced into the United States from France in the mid-19th century; in Little Women, Amy tied a pink ribbon on Daisy, and a blue one on her twin, Demi, "French-style, so you can always tell." But the practice was not common until after World War II, partly because there was considerable disagreement about which color was appropriate for which sex. The Infant's Department, a trade journal, tried to settle the question in 1918: "There has been a great diversity of opinion on the subject, but the generally accepted rule is pink for the boy and blue for the girl. The reason is that pink, being a more decided and stronger color, is more suitable for a boy, while blue, which is more delicate and dainty, is prettier for the girl."

Clothing manufacturers complained that greeting-card companies were confusing the issue by using pink for girls and blue for boys in birth announcements. The greeting-card people pointed to Gainsborough's "Blue Boy" and "Pinky" as proof they were right. The debate continued for decades. in 1939, Parents magazine polled customers in a New York department store and found that, while most preferred pink for girls, about one-fifth favored blue for girls and pink for boys. The first children to be consistently color-coded by gender were the post-war baby boomers. Pink has been an exclusively feminine color for only about 40 years. (This explains all the sweet, elderly ladies who thought your son was a girl even when he was dressed all in blue.)

Interesting Fact!

I did not know the color "pink" was more of boys' color than girls' in the past. Knowing this society thinks pink is defenitely for girls, especially for girly girls.

However, I do find myself attracted to the guy wearing pink! :D
Like pale pink, never hot pink, sweater or polo, I think it is a good way to impress the girls that they look more nice and gentle. So yey! for the boys who wear pink.

liking pink

i hear alot of you sayin things like "if guys cant wear pink then they are insecure" or "all people should wear pink" and i was just thinking, and, i, personally, dont like the color pink at all, and i think it looks horrible on me. but since im a guy and i dont wear pink, im insecure???

that just doesnt make sense to me.

also i know alot of u will agree with me and probably this just slipped ur mind if u made a post like that, or else u just didnt think it was worth the extra time and energy to type it... i still think it needs to be said

wear what you want... not what the crowd wants...

first off the people who think guys who wear pink is "cool" or "nice" are just as bad as the people who say pink is "gay" or "feminine". wear what the hell you want to wear not because the "cool crowd" approves of it, i'll have no problem wearing a ripped up shirt all stained, (and no not a pink shirt thats just my preference)and still find girls who like me for who i am and not for my colored shirt...

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