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Wendie Jo

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"Actress Wendie Jo Sperber, who starred opposite Tom Hanks on TV's "Bosom Buddies" and who in his words became "a walking inspiration" after she contracted cancer, died on Nov. 29. She was in her 40s. Sperber, who appeared in dozens of television shows and movies, including all three "Back to the Future" films, died at home after an eight-year battle with breast cancer." -Los Angeles Times

My mom called me last night to tell me this news. I am sure none of you remember my first blog post for WOI in which I talked about the communities I belong to. One of the few I listed as very important to me was weSPARK. Wendie Jo was the founder of this incredible organization.

Grandmothers Learning to Pole Dance

culture | Health

It's not sick, it's healthy. Women all over the counrty are being swept of thier feet with the new striptease exercise routines. Growing in popularity, these aerobic exercises help women of all ages get into shape in a fun way that helps them feel younger physically and mentally.

Don't worry, in most classes, the woman do not actually strip. Although, some classes are known for getting a bit raunchier such as this one in Brentwood, California.

Asian Lady Beetles-- Not as cute as their ladybug cousins

A recent article in the New York Times describes Lady beetles infesting homes across North America, searching for winter homes. While one's first reaction might be "no big deal, what are a few ladybugs here and there..." the problem is much more severe than it seems. These beetles are not as friendly and rare as the ladybugs most of us are used to. Lady beetles swarm, leave yellow stains, and smell. Worse than that, they like to stay indoors during the winter, seeking out older homes that are easier to penetrate to swarm in huge numbers.

War exploited through Popular Clothing Companies

culture

This weekend I went to the King of Prussia Mall with some friends to go shopping and get off campus for a while. While strolling through the mall my friend and I wandered into Lucky Brand Jeans. For those who do not know, this is a chain of smallish stores that carry trendy (and arguably overpriced) clothing appealing to a wide clientel, including people as young as middle-schoolers. My friend and I browsed around the store for a while without finding anything overly exciting. I drifted over to some neatly stacked girls sweatshirts in pretty colors and lifted one up. I was absolutely astonished to see the word "Vietnam" printed on the front. It was so simple, but held so much meaning.

A New Take on News

current events

I was recently introduced to an amazing site that links to newspapers, books, essays, columnists, radio stations and more, from all around the world. It is absolutely fascinating to read about news from the perspectives of other countries, and because it is so important to stay on top of current events and politics during this time, I thought it would be interest

A Bryn Mawr alumn's view on single-sex education

education

I know the issue has been raised many times, but it was called to my attention again while reading this article in the latest edition of newsweek, written by none other than a Bryn Mawr alumna, Christine Flowers. The topic in concern is the education and experience that single-sex institutions provide. While mens colleges have been completely phased out, the few prominent women's colleges still left struggle to stay afloat. Personally, I think that single-sex higher level learning institutions provide amazing opportunities to their students and it makes me so sad to think that they may one day fade away all together.

flying

sharing

I have always loved going to the airport because of the hustle and bustle and excitement that accompanies the experience. I’m also a big fan of people watching. Airports are ideal for this sport because there are so many different types of people that all end up in the same location.

On my flight home, while everyone was getting off the plane, it really struck me for the first time: I had just spent six hours of my life in a plane full of complete strangers, every single person different, and I knew nothing about any of them. Traveling by ways of air, people from all different backgrounds are thrown together, and all endure the same experience, but nothing is shared.

Sickening and Sad

sharing

Today as I was reading at my granpdarent’s house I happened to overhear a conversation my grandmother was having on the phone. When she got off the phone, she proceeded to tell me the story in more detail.

She and my grandfather’s close friends from their college days have been having plumbing issues. The woman (we’ll call her Mary) is a very well known and accomplished painter, who makes millions from her paintings, and the man (we’ll call him Len) is a retired army officer with a very nice pension. They live in a house worth over three million dollars, and can afford most of the luxuries this world has to offer. The man however, as my grandma puts it, “is as cheap as manure.”

Anyone for Meningitis?

Health

Weeks before I was getting ready to leave for Bryn Mawr, my mom was reminding me that when I arrived I had to go to the health center to get my meningitis vaccination. Like a good girl, the second week I was here I wandered over to the health center and put my name on a list to get the shot once they got the vaccine in. I have yet to hear from them, and today while browsing the internet I found a very interesting article on the topic. Apparently, there have been several reports of teenagers developing the Guillain Barre syndrome ( a serious neurological disorder) after receiving the new and more protective vaccination against meningitis. The cases all appeared a few weeks after the seventeen and eighteen year olds received the vaccination, and occured in New York, Ohio, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey.

5th Graders Getting STD Vaccines?

It seems as though no matter how much technology progresses, old ways of thinking are what truly set us back. Recently a vaccine was developed that prevents the human papillomavirus. This virus, adverse in itself, is also a major cause of cervical cancer. The catch is that the vaccine is most effective when given to children around the age of eleven.

Because the human papillomavirus is an STD, many parents, as well as conservative groups oppose the distribution of the vaccine, fearing that it is yet another insentive for younger people to engage in sexual activity. While this is a valid concern, in the long term it is simply nonsensical. Amanda Marcotte makes an incredibly good point," You wouldn't think of breaking down your grown child's door and throwing away his condoms, so why do it retroactively by denying this vaccine?"

Got Guys?

Throughout most of high school I had a really serious boyfriend. I've always had lots of guy friends, but I've never really thought about the role that males played in my life, and how much they contributed to my happiness.
While I love Bryn Mawr, and the all women's aspect, I have found myself going nuts recently. Anyone who knows me knows that I've never been boy crazy or anything of the like. I love my guy friends and I loved my boyfriend, but I was never one of those girls that wanted to get out there and find guys. Whatever I had was always kind of dropped in my lap. I never sought actively to find men.

I love it here

I don't really know how I wound up here, but here I am. Everyone who knows me will tell you that I am the most indecisive person they know. I never thought I'd be able to make a decision about where to go for college.

There has always been this huge stigma that accompanies the phrase "All Women's College." When I told people that I was considering Bryn Mawr, and that it was all women, people would say things and give me looks like "do you know what you're getting yourself into?" Before I got here and experienced it for myself, I always had doubt in my choice to come here, and didn't know if people's adverse reactions to my choice were at all warranted.

my additions to our collection

blogging

So I added two sites to the aggregator. The first is Lunch on Friday. I was searching for blogs about food online (because food is an extremely important part of my life) and i came across this site. It's this group of guys that go around eating at random places and write reviews on them. It's funny, and the coolest part about the site is you can type in your zip code and it randomizes a place to go to lunch for you. I don't know, I thought it was really quirky and well done, so I hope you all enjoy too.

Why We Blog

In chapter 6, Brad Graham describes his early fascination with blogs that began by reading other's and finding links to more through them. I think this is often the way people discover blogging. One finds themself knowing people without having ever met them, talked to them, or having the other person even know they exist. While that may sound creepy, the people who post these blogs are doing it so that people can read them to gain information and to relate.

Contrary to popular (non blogger) belief, blogging has tons of benefits that cannot be attained through most other activities. Graham points a few of the most substantial out in this chapter. The one that I find most valuable is the sense of community that comes from blogging. By reading other's blogs and becoming attached to the individuals posting, one find's themself wanting to be an actual part of the community that they already feel a part of. I am starting to think of blogging as cheap therapy. You vent online, get out whatever it is that is going on inside your head, and people can comment back, give you advice, understanding, or whatever else it is you need. In the earlier assignment on community, I wrote that a community is something that you can always find comfort and understanding in. I think that for many, blog communities supply just that.

Here it Goes

community

Throughout my life I have belonged to countless communities, so I'll only focus on a few that are most important to me, and those I will always be a part of. First of all is my family. I am incredibly close with my mom. I also went to my grandparent's house every day after school from kindergarten to the last day of high school. My family on my mom's side all live close by and we have family dinners all the time.

The next community is weSPARK. weSPARK is a non profit cancer support organization. I was very involved with the children's group back home, for kids who have a parent with cancer, or who have cancer themselves. When I left for college, they had a little thank you party for me and said some amazing things. When I left they made it clear that I would always be a part of that community and that I would be welcome always.


Comments by Misty Jean


by Misty Jean on Thu, 2006-01-05 03:40
Wow. I'm definitely going to pick up a copy. I remember hearing about that book a long time ago, and I was actually just watching Judge Judy today with my grandma. We seriously laugh so hard at that show, she's hillarious.
by Misty Jean on Tue, 2005-11-15 16:50
Alright, so I understand the point of going to wellness and find some of the topics we discuss interesting. The papers however, are completely pointless. How is writing a paper about stress management for wellness while we have three other papers due the same day really going to help us? It just seems silly.
by Misty Jean on Tue, 2005-11-15 15:00
I think weird things happen to everyone in their sleep. I know I experience the same twitching issue. Dreams also have a really huge effect on me. Sometimes I won't even really remember a dream, but it will still effect my mood the next day. I think the twitching thing is pretty normal, I know a lot of people other than myself who also get it. Don't worry too much, I'm sure you dont have Periodic Limb Movement Disorder, and if you do, so do A LOT of people.
by Misty Jean on Tue, 2005-11-15 14:52
First of all, completely I agree that more positive posts will be refreshing and nice for the blog. It is a really good idea to include the 'five things' in some posts. I am grateful that I will be able to see snow for the first time this winter. I am grateful to have made such good friends at Bryn Mawr. I am grateful for all the opportunities that my family has worked hard to give me. I am grateful that I am loved and supported. and I'm also grateful that Thanksgiving is just around the corner and I'll be able to see everyone I love. With that being said: I think that when people post things or ideas that might be controversial, it draws more people in to participate in our blog, and more people's opinions are heard. I think that hearing peoples opinions whether or not they are in accordance with the author's is beneficial to everyone and that people shouldn't be shy about posting things that will be controversial. In your post you said, "Why would anyone want to comment on a post when they may be blasted by the sharp tongues of posters who take offense at another posters opinion? " Wouldn't that also play true for people writing posts? Why would people want to write posts sharing their opinions if people will comment antagonistically, rather than sharing their differing view in a polite way. I think this all can be worked out if instead of not posting on potentially controversial subject matter, we just figure out a way to be more civil and understanding of other peoples opinions.
by Misty Jean on Mon, 2005-11-14 20:18
Answer: yes. First of all, I want to start this off by saying that the offense I took to the garment was my opinion. I am entitled to my opinion just as you are entitled to yours. People cannot help what offends them. While I applaud you for taking things into your own hands and making a call to the company, I feel that we have a misunderstanding. I never said that I thought Lucky Brand Jeans made this jacket to intentionally offend anyone. I don't think any popular clothing company with a reputation at stake would intentionally produce any piece of merchandise that could potentially offend customers. I am sure that the company does do many charitable things, but that really has nothing to do with the issue at hand. The play on words 'Lucky You' on Lucky Brand's flies, while it might be offensive to some people, in my opinion is in an entirely different league. 'Lucky You' has a very different connotaion than 'Vietnam.' In my opinion, the two are incomparable. My issue is not with support or protest of the Vietnam war, but with the casual way the word Vietnam has been placed on this clothing. I have not forgotten the Civil War, nor have I forgotten WWI. People refer to the Vietnam war as 'Vietnam.' People do not refer to the Civil War as 'Alabama.' Wearing a shirt that says 'Alabama' on it, is quite different than wearing a shirt that says 'The Civil War' on it. I am not one to nitpick at everything in society and take offense to it and anyone who knows me would never use the phrase politically correct to describe me. The fact is, I take offense to this piece of clothing. You obviously don't, and I'm not asking you to. Why don't we just agree to disagree, and leave it at that.
by Misty Jean on Mon, 2005-11-14 00:04
Many Vietnam veterans and certainly the families of people who lost their lives in Vietnam who are still around could find the casual smattering of the word "Vietnam" on trendy clothing offensive. Something that is so avoidable and could offend many people in our society, I find to be detrimental. The Vietnam nurse toy you point out is at least acknowledging what happened there instead of desensitizing impressionable minds to something that they should become educated about. I wouldn't buy a sweatshirt that said Vietnam on it, nor would I buy any 100 dollar track jacket, nevermind one with a map of Vietnam on it.
by Misty Jean on Sun, 2005-11-13 22:08
A child of five cannot even form proper sentences or have a clear perception of the world around her. Mentally, a five year old cannot handle a pregnancy, but it is almost impossible to imagine such a small child being able to physically support another human being. It's really scary, but also quite remarkable to think about.
by Misty Jean on Wed, 2005-11-09 21:41
That whole story is so neat. These are the kinds of things I wish we heard more about on the news: inspiring stories that empower the younger generations to make a difference.
by Misty Jean on Mon, 2005-10-31 16:26
My best friend's dad knew she had a blog and did some serious internet searching to find it and then read all of her friends' as well. It is so morally wrong for a parent to do this to their child and even more so to their child's friends. If a parent feels that they don't know enough about their child's life, then that parent should take the effort they put into finding and reading about their child's life and put it into forming a closer relationship.
by Misty Jean on Mon, 2005-10-31 16:22
I didn't really know what to expect from Lantern Night either. I thought the whole bat robe thing was a little creepy also. I'm really not into the whole chanting, black cape, darkness, filing in by rows not knowing what we are about to experience -thing. However, I am BIG on traditions and once we got inside the cloisters and were given time to stand with all the members of our class and enjoy the beautiful night and lights, it all became magical to me. I know that these traditions are things I will remember always and look back on and cherish.
by Misty Jean on Mon, 2005-10-31 16:13
I completely understand what you are saying. My friends and I came back to our dorm a little early because one of our friends wasn't feeling well and there was a girl in the bathroom all by herself without any pants on with her head on the toilet seat vomiting. We were so shocked that her friends or whoever she was with earlier in the night would just abandon her like that. We obviously asked her if she was okay and if she needed anything, a few upperclass women down the hall saw what was going on and took charge of the situation, but the girl was in the bathroom for a really long time all by herself before any of this had happened, and had walked back from a party completely alone. Halloween can get a little out of control, but we need to remember we are a community and that our friends need to come first.
by Misty Jean on Mon, 2005-10-31 16:13
I completely understand what you are saying. My friends and I came back to our dorm a little early because one of our friends wasn't feeling well and there was a girl in the bathroom all by herself without any pants on with her head on the toilet seat vomiting. We were so shocked that her friends or whoever she was with earlier in the night would just abandon her like that. We obviously asked her if she was okay and if she needed anything, a few upperclass women down the hall saw what was going on and took charge of the situation, but the girl was in the bathroom for a really long time all by herself before any of this had happened, and had walked back from a party completely alone. Halloween can get a little out of control, but we need to remember we are a community and that our friends need to come first.
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:58
Thank you so much for visiting our blog. I was quite excited to read your article, and now your comment on my post! While I am just a freshman at Bryn Mawr, I am already seeing all the wonderful opportunities for growth that the school has to offer.
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:55
I stopped going trick-or-treating in 8th grade because my friends and I got a lot of really angry comments from people saying that we were too old. While I think that getting mad at 8th graders is excessive, I also think that trick-or-treating should be limited to a certain age group. It is definitely important that everyone who wants to finds a way to cut-loose and celebrate, but I know that on the years when I gave out candy, I would sometimes resent when people came to the door that were well beyond the age when trick-or-treating had a magical appeal.
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:48
I brought one feather pillow to school but I haven't used it because I thought it smelled weird, instead I use it as a pad for my chair. I already planned on going to Bed Bath and Beyond this weekend to get a new non-smelly feather pillow, and after reading this post it's for sure happening. YUCK
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:34
Even though I know that there are still plenty of whit nationalist supporters out there, I was so shocked to watch this video. I think it is a combination of the hateful message the girls are sending out with their innocent image. It is absolutely sickening. Everyone who has seen it thinks it is a joke. The scary part is though, that it isn't a joke and that young impressionable minds are subjected to this hate every day.
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:20
I guess I am just that stereotypical California girl. My roommate laughs at me every morning when I get dressed in my thermals, big puffy jacket, and boots. I know it is sad, but I'm freezing. I have never seen snow, and I'm incredibly excited. I don't know what to do though! If this is freezing for me, and I am wearing all my heaviest clothes, what am I going to do in January!?
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:15
I don't see how a school can have authority or control over what its students choose to do or say outside of school. Teachers and administrators should be more concerned with what the issues are that cause the students to talk negatively about the institution in the first place, than with the fact that they are being vocal about them.
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:11
Though it is awful, I think we have been desensitized to numbers and statistics we get from the news because we read and hear them so often. On occasion, the news will go in depth with a story on one or two particular individuals, and in these cases, the horror that is occuring really hits me so much harder. I don't like numbers either.
by Misty Jean on Fri, 2005-10-28 16:06
that was a nice little break from the chaos of college life. I love being reminded of things that flood my head with happy memories. It's amazing to think of how simple life is when you are little.
by Misty Jean on Sun, 2005-10-23 11:57
I just came back from brunch, during which my friends and I were having this exact discussion. I was showing my friend my hot socks with a cow print on them, and we were talking about how we used to have stretch pants and shoes with that print also. We realized we were dorky of course, but at the same time, aren't little kids supposed to be dorkily dressed? We were saying that our entire wardrobes consisted of velure turtlenecks and leggings, accompanied by ruffly dresses and lace socks. The stuff you see today is ridiculous, and it actually really scares me to think about the way kids will be dressing when I have my own children. I don't want my kids to be outkasts, but there is no way I am going to allow them to prance around like victoria's secret models. I agree that the toy manufacturers could play a role in this, but a tremendous responsibility also lies on the popular clothing companies.
by Misty Jean on Thu, 2005-10-13 14:32
I completely feel the same way. The first night I came home I had dinner with my grandparent's and it seemed like they were bickering about the same topic the day I left for college. I also went back to my high school- the teachers were pulling the same old tricks, and all the students were exactly the same. It's weird, because I feel like I am changing so much while everything else is staying the same, but I also think it is really comforting in a way.
by Misty Jean on Sat, 2005-10-01 21:31
It seems like a really dynamic group of people and it must be really nice to have a sort of surrogate family while you are away from home. Thanks for all the detail!
by Misty Jean on Thu, 2005-09-29 18:30
I know people with ADD as well, and while they admit to the ritalin significantly helping them focus, I know some of them don't like being on the drug because of the incredible lows they feel if they skip a day by accident, or because they are just don't like grappling with the idea of having to be dependent on a drug. I've though a lot about this issue too and it's really hard to say in general if it is better to be on it or off the medication. I really think it can go either way depending on the individual and should be considered case by case.
by Misty Jean on Sun, 2005-09-25 22:27
I definitely agree that because it is so easy to print pictures yourself these days, it should not be the store's responsibility to print vulgar things. People who drop off film to be devoloped with vulgar images know that others will have to look at them, and clearly get some sick pleasure from that. And those that forget what was taken on the roll, would probably be embarrassed to know others saw.
by Misty Jean on Thu, 2005-09-22 12:54
I'm going home to Los Angeles and I'm so excited. I love it here, but it will be really nice to see my friends and family back home and be in a big city again. I miss it so much. Good luck with basketball!
by Misty Jean on Tue, 2005-09-13 22:42
happy early birthday! mines november 6th
by Misty Jean on Tue, 2005-09-13 19:38
I had a livejournal previous to this blog (similar to a xanga ), and I definitely know what you mean about now having more purpose to the writing. As opposed to my livejournal where I would just write whatever, not really thinking about the people reading it, with WOI I feel like my writing really has the opportunity to "influence" other people, which makes me want to write about topics that hold more value. It's nice to see I'm not the only one with that perspective.
by Misty Jean on Sat, 2005-09-03 06:34
you do belong here. you've got worlds to offer. =) i love you!
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