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What does Christmas mean to you?

culture | current events | family

Christmas means many different things to many different people.

To many people, Christmas is a time to be with family, and celebrate, have fun, eat a lot, and have the joy of getting and giving presents.

For other people, the holiday is more related to religion.

So it's not odd that many, many people don't go to any service on Christmas, because for them it is not really a religious holiday. What strikes me as interesting is that people who normally go to Church, would not go on Christmas, which to Christians represents the birth of Christ. There is a whole season of the church calendar devoted to it!

ADD/ADHD

Health

I am one of millions of Americans who have been diagnozed with ADD or ADHD.

A semi-technical definition of ADD/ADHD is:
"Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a psychiatric diagnosis that interprets divergent personality traits perceived to be distracting as symptoms of a mental disorder. Characteristics sometimes interpreted as symptoms include hyperfocus, hyperactivity, social anxiety, forgetfulness, mood shifts, and disobediance." from wikipedia

Is the President a liar?

current events

According to one poll, more people say yes.

This is an important issue to the president, because previously many people who didn't agree with his views or policies still respected his character. Also, his job approval rating is at 42%.

Now more and more Americans are saying that they don't believe he has been honest with the public. For many people, this has to do with how our country became involved in the war in Iraq. The approval rating for President Bush's handling of Iraq is just 38%.

Even the Senators are concerned...

"Under the Patriot Act, the FBI issues more than 30,000 national security letters allowing the investigations each year, a hundred-fold increase over historic norms"

Even those lawmakers who helped to pass the Patriot Act are now becoming concerned with its usage, specifically how the number of investigations of people have skyrocketed.

More Supreme Court Nominees...

After Harriet Miers didn't get the support from the conservatives that she needed, President Bush went looking for someone who would get that support, and found that person in Samuel Alito.

Alito has more experience as a judge than Miers did, considering she wasn't ever one, but perhaps more importantly, Alito has a solidly consevative background.

We can only control how we react...

Accidents happen.

It's part of life, its part of nature. Accidents are not even particularly rare, or avoidable. No matter what flaws we fix in something, there will always be more that we don't see, or can't compensate for. "Accidents, he argues, do not occur so much because of exceptional errors or inexcusable negligence but because a number of quite regular errors pile up, often compounded in an unanticipated way...accidents are best understood as the unexpected consequences of normal behavior; hence they are not only normal, but inevitable." - Watts

Hang Gliding!

Wacky Weekends

So, I definatly had a wacky weekend.

After a very stressful trip to the airport, and sitting around in various airports and planes for ours, I was finally home. But instead of actaully going home, I was picked up from the airport, and my mother, my mothers boyfriend Colin, and her friend Frieda, all piled into the car to go to Lookout Mountain to go hang gliding.

Transition

community | culture

Not every problem that incoming freshman have to deal with is academic in nature.

I can't tell you how many times people have asked me for help with their laundry since we all arrived.

And there is nothing wrong with that. Its just not what most people first think about when they think about the transition into college. I know it wasn't for me. But it can be those little things that end up stressing out new freshmen.

The Breakdown of Desegregation

culture | current events | education

Thanks to my a discussion in my history class, and a blog entry I read by Tech Goddess, I started thinking about inequality in education.

I know I was personally affected by changing education standards by my high school. I went to an academic magnet high school that drew from the whole county. When the program was first started in 1985, there was a quota that had to be meet for a percentage of minority students admitted. It was enforced racial integration basically, because instead of doing a random lottery of teenagers who met the academic requirements for admission, the process was heavily slanted towards those with minority status. Things continued on that way for 17 years, until 2001 when it was decided that this was a discriminatory practice, and was banned.

Culture Shock.

community | culture

Sometimes I feel like I'm speaking a foreign language. Or like I've moved to a different country, even though I am from the US. Bryn Mawr has seriously stood what I'm used to on its head.

I'm not from this area of the country, I'm from an area that is not overly well represented "The South". This departure from everything I've ever known was a deliberate one, I wanted to learn about new kinds of people and new cultures and I have. But sometimes people have a hard time understanding me.

And they say I'm vague...

politics

I've often been told that I'm rather vague. Check this dude (J. Roberts) out:

"Go ahead and continue not to answer," Sen. Joe Biden, D-Del., told the nominee at one point.

Later, Biden interrupted Roberts and, when criticized by the Judiciary Committee chairman, said, "His answers are misleading, with all due respect."

"Wait a minute! Wait a minute! They may be misleading but they are his answers," said Sen. Arlen Specter, R-Pa., the chairman.

Political Blogs

I hate to admit it, but I am really fascinated my politics and political blogs. Thats why I added the blog called The Mighty Middle to the aggregator. I really liked the authors writing style, and the fact that I could read it, and learn something while being entertained at the same time.

If you interested in political blogs, one resource to find the is

Truman Doctrine and the Patriot Act

politics

Excerpt from the Truman Doctrine:

At the present moment in world history nearly every nation must choose between alternative ways of life. The choice is too often not a free one.

One way of life is based upon the will of the majority, and is distinguished by free institutions, representative government, free elections, guarantees of individual liberty, freedom of speech and religion, and freedom from political oppression.

Freedom V. Kindness

current events

There are many conflicting values that our society holds dear, two of the those are the right to free speech, and the responsibility we all have to be kind to one another. They are conflicting because in order to be kind and respectful to everyone, its not always possible to speak your mind. The question for me is, which takes precedence, and who gets to decide that?

There are many places to explore such a conflict, something as basic as freedom of speech, and kindness touch nearly every aspect of out lives. However, an example of one place that this applies is the internet. There are many places you can go on the internet that restrict not only those who can contribute to them, or what the topics of such forums might be, but also “hostility”. There are many places where you aren’t even allowed to disagree with an idea. However, on the other hand, the internet could be the ultimate platform for free speech. In life we are restrain from saying many things because we fear what people might think, or do, or say. However, online there is the possibility of almost infinite anonimity.

Another one about the hurricane...

current events

I know I personally have be totally shocked to hear about the state of chaos where the hurricanes have hit, and how many people have been harmed not from the hurricane, but from the ensuing violence and shortages.

I know at our dorm meeting we talked about setting up boxes for donations of clothes, toliet stuff, and non perishable foods.

If anyone wants to donate stuff and you can't find anywhere to do so(though I don't know why that would be the case) just let me know.

Guardsmen Greeted With Applause, Anger

Forget it.

emergence

Skipping over what might seem to be the most obvious topic of conversation, I just wanted to say one thing.

I got my little red glow stick out of my freezer tonight.

It's beautiful.

Community

community

There are some communities that we are all apart of. For example, the world as a whole is really a kind of community. Our place in the world community is in a way similar to the place we have in our family communities. No one can choose their parents, just the way they have no control over the fact that they were born at all.

Writing in the first plural person, if such a thing exists, is just not working for me.

My point is, there are communities that I am a part of just by existing. And because I am a part of a community, something bigger than myself, I have a responsibility to those communities.

Just Trying To Figure This Out

I'm just trying to see how this thing works.

However, my community entry will be about.... well, I guess I'm still working on that one.


Comments by Abstract Water


by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-12-07 12:07
If the water in the bathrooms isn't hot enough you can always put it in the microwave, or an electric teakettle.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-12-06 13:01
amazingly true. I'd always wondered why that was, I've definatly experienced that feeling of not getting why it was funny.
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-28 18:45
Yeah, I saw this movie a month or two ago and I remember thinking that it only seemed to portray one side of things. Like, she seemed like she had good intentions, but it never really seemed like she took into account what the people there really thought.
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-11-27 12:03
I did go shopping on the day after Christmas, namely because I couldn't really believe that so many people did do it, I wanted to see it with my own eyes. It was crazy, I can't understand how people do that year after year...
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-14 19:42
I don't know. I think that academic writing should have a nice flow to it, and I think that's part of what he's getting at. I also think that it is important cut out the extra parts of other kinds of writng besides academic writing, its just that different kinds of things are necessary for that writing.
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-14 19:37
There are a lot of people in popular culture who make a big deal out of being single, but you don't ever really see that happening with people who aren't straight. All of the "out" famous gay people are either in a committed relationship, or try and act like they have no sexuality at all. But maybe this is just what the media is presenting to us?
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-07 19:21
I once saw a show about friends with benefits. The whole point of the show was basically to say that its a situation that just about never turns out positively. I wonder if anyone has had any other experience?
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-07 19:18
Mmm... Scandal.
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-07 10:10
Internet access certainly isn't as important as health care, just a lot easier to get.
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-07 10:06
Its amazing how debt just became a way of life in post WWII America...
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-11-07 10:03
I have several friends who actually did set up their schedules around not having friday classes. What interestging to me is that my easiest academic days are friday and monday, not because I tried to make them that way, but it was just how my class schedule worked out. It never seemed to be to be a good idea to try and cram all your classes in to four days instead of five to me. It just seems like it would be too much work all at once.
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-11-02 13:47
and I agree with your friend...
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-11-02 12:54
but so is being skinny. I mean, clearly anorexia isn't a good thing, and its something many people struggle with. However, people were making fun of Mary-Kate and Lohan for potentially having the disorder. I'm not sure how that helps anything. I've seen a lot of adds lately that talk about how being "unnaturally" skinny is out of style. Well, I always find it really upsetting, becuase just as there are people who are naturally bigger than the "normal", there are people that are smaller. The stereotypical perfect female body type is not a skinny one, its a more curvy one.
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-11-02 12:47
What does a political ringtone sound like?
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-11-02 12:45
What are ways in which our education could be expanded that way?
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-11-01 08:22
Half of our customs group was is a panic, because it took a very long time for the first persons lantern to go out, and no one seemed to want theirs to go out first. Plus, Vicki was leading step-sing for our class, so we had to keep asking her after every song whether hers had gone out or not. I ended up giving up my PHd for Vicki trying to give her lantern a light.
by Abstract Water on Sat, 2005-10-29 09:10
I think journalists are no less likely to publish the truth than bloggers, its just that we as the public are more inclined to take what a "journalist" says at face value, and not consider the fact that the source is a person. Its very possible to write an biased article that is based on true facts, and its bound to happen to either bloggers or paid journalists.
by Abstract Water on Sat, 2005-10-22 15:49
Its too true, if you want to be in shape for a sport, you basically have to do cardio. But honestly, you might be better off doing something thats not running anyway, espicially if running is a big part of whatever sport you play. You know, cross-training and all that. Speaking of that, what sport do you play?
by Abstract Water on Sat, 2005-10-22 10:35
I don't have any blood related brothers or sisters, but I do have three step-sisters and one step-brother. I get along with all of them but they are all older than me, so I don't talk to most of them all that much except for Katie, who is just a little bit older than me. We were pretty close, but also ran into a lot of conflicts too. Except for us, they conflicts weren't based on anything our parents did or said, it was like us competing against each other.
by Abstract Water on Thu, 2005-10-20 19:48
It is so amazing to me that anyone would ever say that it is okay to kill someone. Or hate someone. "God Hates Newton South School District" is such an absurd statement to me... I'm sure there are people who would agree with his point of view in that district anyway. But its also amazingly good that people who aren't gay are willing to stand up and say that hate is not a "family value".
by Abstract Water on Fri, 2005-10-14 11:07
Not to mention canned/bottled "tea" is just scary.
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-10-12 17:15
Well, the height difference between the top of the small hill and the ground is only 20 ft, so there wasn't much time to be scared to be honest...
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-10-12 17:12
Yeah, I've had problems with my mother resulting from the way she treated me when she was angry. But, in my experience its kids who are actaully beaten who have problems, not ones who are spanked.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-10-11 09:42
Even if softdrinks don't actaully hurt you, they still are far from the best choice of drink. Even juice, which if often filled with extra sugars, is better if only because it has all those vitamins. And it doesn't have caffeine. And it only contains naturally occuring acids... Okay, so maybe they are a lot better.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-10-11 09:30
In case anyone was doubting that a canadates physical apperance has an effect on people, we just have to look back to the 1960 election. Kennedy and Nixon debated, and it was shown on TV, and played on the radio. Those who heard the debate thought Nixon won, but those who saw it, and compared the phyiscal appearances of Kennedy and Nixon throught it thought Kennedy won.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-10-11 09:19
I think there are sometimes where spanking could be appropriate. I mean, I was spanked a few times as a child, and I think that spanking was probably the best way to deal with me, it got my attention and made me listen. But I was never actaully physically hurt. Which would obviously be bad. To me, where things start to go bad is when parents start hitting their children out of frustration or anger. Kids know the difference. Regardless, its like the person above said, when you spank a child you are telling them violence is an acceptable method of communication.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-10-11 09:10
Having the rules apply to only some people is one of the faults of having a dress code, as opposed to a uniform I think. I also ran into that trouble at school too, where some people were allowed to get away with the rules. This had the rather unfortunate effect of making the system as a whole pretty ineffective.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-10-04 20:10
Yeah, wasn't it that pink was for boys originally, but things got switched around sometime...
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-10-04 09:11
A few factors have changed since many observations about the relationship between the cost v benefit of hybrid cars, one being gas prices. They are now much higher than they used to be, but there are still many other potential costs involved in maintaing a car other than gas. This also relates to an earlier post, if you didn't see it the first time around.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-10-04 09:07
In my high school it was unusual for guys for guys to wear pink, but I had a friend who did and a lot of us girls thought it was attractive just because he was self-assured enough to wear it without worrying.
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-10-02 15:10
Yeah, it ends up being a whole lot less secure even with more passwords just because most people do write them down. I really think life would be easier if everyone would just agree on certain requirements ie: has to have numbers, be this long etc. But I guess that would make things easier to get into as well.
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-10-02 15:08
I think thats one of those questions that you could never really know the answer to until it really happens to you. I think most eveyone would say that they would never do such a thing, I know I'd say that, but how can you really know?
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-10-02 15:06
That's really cool, and it makes a whole lot of sense. Any parent with a child with a video game can tell you how easily children will block out the rest of the world when they are really focused on the game.
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-10-02 15:04
It is something to be aware of, the problem is the whole thing is really rather inconclusive because its kind of a hard thing to study effectively.
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-10-02 15:02
You are right, this is an outrage. Maybe you should draw up a resolution...?
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-09-27 19:42
Its like you said. It's kind of hard to avoid "bad" words in life. As long as no one is going is go too overboard with it, then I don't see what the problem is anyway.
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-09-26 15:06
Wow. That is amazing....
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-09-21 20:39
Because who decided what "A" work is anyway? I think that it should actually mean something, and that if everyone gets As then the grading system is not accurate.
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-09-21 11:42
That's really cool that you wrote all of that, because I know that sometimes its hard for people to be able to understand the concept of any kind of arranged marriage. I know that I've been brought up in a culture that expects a "love match". But what many people tend to forget is that love matches haven't really been the thing for that long. For example earlier in US history, it was common for people to marry for social or economic reasons instead of a love match. Which I realize is not the same thing as a arranged marriage, but its just somethine for people who criticize to think about. Also, during the time period that such marriages were more acceptable, the divorce rate was lower too.
by Abstract Water on Wed, 2005-09-21 09:05
I lost my cell phone too for awhile, so I can understand how stressful and upsetting it can be. Have you checked with Public Safety?
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-09-20 15:36
Aren't there programs where restauraunts give their extra food to people? If so, could we do that too?
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-09-19 11:36
I know a lot of people who are sick (myself included) and I know that it can be hard to slow down for anything, even if you know that you need it to recover physically or mentally. For me, a lot of it is external pressure, but also its partly because I just like to be busy all the time. But maybe that is cultural too?
by Abstract Water on Mon, 2005-09-19 11:31
Don't both Mobile and Exxon also own other gas companies? Does anyone know what they might be? Okay, so the only ones I could find are Mobil, Esso and Exxon. A creepy, but informative site about ExxonMobil is Exxon Secrets.
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-09-18 19:09
I think the notion that cookies are just bad in general is just sad.... They are just as good as any other food, as long as one doesn't eat just cookies. But vitamins cookies are a cool idea. But have you ever had vitamin gummy bears? They are pretty weird...
by Abstract Water on Thu, 2005-09-15 15:28
Yeah, I just wish there were some easy way to figure out if we were getting ripped off or not. Who watches out for us for this subject, or does anyone?
by Abstract Water on Thu, 2005-09-15 15:15
Though your point about getting more fuel efficient cars is a good one, I'm not sure hybrid cars are necessarily the answer right now. Don't get me wrong, they are great, but they are new and so represent a risk in buying one. No one is really sure how well they will age, and many studies have shown that someone who buys a new hybrid might not get the extra money they are spending on that car instead of a normal one back in saved gas money. Also, hybrid cars can be harder to get repaired. All thats to say, you can get extremely fuel efficient regular cars too, and though the gas mileage might not be as good, you can a least have a better idea of what to expect from the car. But I do agree that people driving trucks/jeeps/suvs that they don't need should look at what they can do to cut down on gas consumption.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-09-13 15:10
It makes you wonder why they don't want us to see...
by Abstract Water on Sun, 2005-09-11 13:54
Yes, there are a lot of different kinds of fuel that we could have been using all this time, and more efficient cars, but for some reason its not what the majority of American consumers wants. One example of an interesting fuel are those cars that ru n off the leftover grease of fastfood restauraunts... Of course, this has the rather unforunate side effect of making the car smell like french fries.
by Abstract Water on Tue, 2005-08-30 16:58
Yeah, it can be pretty easy to shape yourself based of those around you. I've been in a similar situation with two groups, and it can get really crazy. Hope you are having a good one...
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